I have often encouraged people to live in such a way that they will have no regrets; to live in such a way as to create beautiful memories.
However, we should not endeavor to create beautiful memories just for ourselves, but for others as well.
Husbands and wives for each other.
Parents for children.
Children for parents.
How terrible it is for one person to do all they can to enrich others, while others do the things that impoverish the other person.
Being Christian makes us concerned about other people, rather than just ourselves.